Dear Homo,

What do you do if you liked someone, dated, then he left to go to Las Vegas. That didn't work out so, he is back. I like him a lot, and he just wants sex - I want more. What do I do?

Robert




Dear Robert,

Does this guy know that you like him? Does he know that you want more than just casual sex? Do you return his phone calls? Does he email you? Does he know that you want a partnership rather than a fuck buddy? Do you ignore him when he tries to talk to you? Do you flake on plans that you make with him? Can he trust you?

My suggestion is to "COMMUNICATE" with him. If he left you to go to Las Vegas, maybe you were ignoring him, or treating him badly and he needed to breathe before he came back to you. So try giving him a call and arranging a dinner date. If that doesn't work - fuck him and move on.

Love,
Homo